I think Supergirl should have landed on another planet and become a hero in one of their cities and then run into Superman and the other heroes at some point when they show up, seemingly as invaders. :O
Or something XD
I think Supergirl is better to develop on her own than for her to seem like Superman's cousin who has to follow in his footsteps, b/c if she does, she ends up seeming not like her own person. And if she doesn't, it becomes this annoying "I dun wanna be a hero simply b/c Superman wants me to be one" thing.
Which is ALSO her not being her own person. She's being reactionary which is just as contingent on what Superman wants, just the opposite. :\
Like shopping at Hot Topic and believing that that in itself makes you a unique individual cuz you're not shopping at the Gap. XD
I honestly think more ppl would be okay with Supergirl (including me) as she is now, if she was a side character in Superman's book. Like... Krypto. XD
Then she wouldn't even need a costume or to be Supergirl. She can just be Superman's Kryptonian cousin who hates everything and everybody XD
But Supergirl has her own series which is (supposedly) about her being a HERO. Ppl argue she's growing and becoming a hero. :\ But.. she's not. :\
The logic of that argument seems to stem from the fact that she's a teenager, teenagers are immature and whiny, adults are not. Therefore when she grows up she'll be ferpectly fine!
>.>;;
Except that that's not how it works. That's a stereotype. :\
Teenagers are not all immature and whiny. In fact many teenagers who ARE immature and whiny are prolly more mature and responsible than ppl believe, and what they do when a teacher isn't yelling at them or something, is prolly different than what you'd believe. :O
Spiderman is a character that was a hero as a teen and grew up. :o He had his issues. MANY MANY issues. But that never stopped him from helping ppl.
Which is the key.
A hero isn't just a person who stands up for themselves (as Kelly keeps trying to insist) or ppl who insist on being "themselves". :\ That CAN be heroic. But that in itself is not heroic.
Magneto stands up for what he believes in. He'll die and kill for what he believes in. Ppl try to change him and he refuses. Is he a hero? :\
I would use President Bush too, but I'd rather not XD
But there are lots of ppl who insists that they never have to change, and that ppl keep telling them that they're wrong but they get back up.
Exactly as Supergirl does at the end of Supergirl #18.
Does that make them heroes? No.
Actually, for better or worse, it makes them stubborn.
Which in itself is neither good nor bad.
The difference is WHAT they are standing up for. :o
Being a hero isn't simply a list of traits. Certainly determination can be a heroic trait and is something most heroes have.
It's also something most villains have.
Intelligence, charisma, strength, will and righteous anger are also great traits to have to be a hero, but are also things that a lot of villains have as well!
What makes somebody a hero is what they believe in and what they DO.
What does Supergirl believe in? What does she do?
Currently she believes in satiating her own desires and caring about her own pain. :\
She fights other heroes, she's left an entire city to die in exchange for her own selfishness (a glimspe of Argo City), she broods, she mopes, she experiments with drugs, she teases boys, and she hates having to be a hero like Superman. >.>;;
Ppl will say these are understandable things.
Yus, they are. Certainly ppl with bad lives can often participate in self destructive behaviour.
The question is.
ARE THESE PEOPLE HEROES?
Are they?
Are the ppl you know who hurt themselves and their loved ones b/c they're wrapped up in their own pain heroes?
Heroes are NOT people without pain. And they are NOT people who dun feel their own pain.
In fact many heroes feel their pain a lot. Heroes like Spiderman or Batman.
Heroes like police officers and fire fighters, and soldiers, many of whom have bad lives, or have seen things so horrible that they would make Supergirl cry and slit her wrists.
And they do not and will not give up or give in to their own issues when they can help others.
Supergirl however sees everything as a chore she HAS to do and in fact refuses to do it.
She complains and makes ppl around her miserable. She FIGHTS other heroes, which is completely unhelpful! And she justifies everything by saying she has a bad life and nobody understands her.
So yus, she fights for her right to be selfish. That's... great.
But is it heroic?
She's a "regular" teenager. Okay. If you believe that's how a regular teenager behaves, fine. XD
But does that make her a hero?
Yus, maybe she'll grow into a hero in the future. Maybe in issue 19 or issue 90 she'll become a hero. Maybe Joker will become a hero in the future too. Maybes are pointless. :\
IS SHE A HERO NOW? Currently?
No.
And simply writing an ending to an issue to have her go "I NEVER GIVE UP RAWRRRRRR" does not make her a hero. :\
It makes her stubborn.
I do love Supergirl XD As a symbol, as proof that a girl can wear the S and represent it just as well as Superman. And for this current Supergirl, as proof that a girl with a background of domestic abuse, and who is lonely and different, can get past that, and not wallow in it, and see that other ppl have bad lives too and deserve help. :D
It means a lot to me b/c my life has actually been similar to this life that Kelly seems to love saying "NOBODY CAN POSSIBLY HAVE IT THIS BAD SO IT'S UNATTACKABLE!!!" and it means a lot to me to see a portrayal where somebody can move beyond that, even while suffering, to see that other ppl are in pain too. :\
I think a big thing for instance would be the high school issue. :o Here, Supergirl doesn't reveal herself until SHE'S the victim of bullying. Then she flies off with the throwaway line that ppl should be themselves. :o Convenient! Considering that nobody else can fly away and go back to their wonderful life of being a pretty blonde, having superpowers and having no responsiblities! The rest of us cannot just avoid school b/c we hate it. Or avoid our lives cuz we hate it! She leaves everybody to their own devices b/c she doesn't like it. :|
It'd be like Nicky Hilton (not Paris cuz she's in jail now XD) telling me that if I just lived the life I was given, everything would be great, b/c that's what she does and life is great too!
What would have been heroic would be for her to continue going to school (b/c it sets a good example as well XD) and be NICE to ppl. She realizes that ppl are unhappy in school and that not having friends and the clique-ishness is making lives miserable, and instead of running away b/c it's more fun for her to party with Captain Boomerang, she not only stays in school, but also is NICE to ppl. :D Even tho she has so many issues, she realizes other ppl have issues too, and altho she can't change the world, she tries her best to make sure other ppl dun feel as she does. :D
That would be heroic. :D That would be a Supergirl that would have "problems" but also be a hero AND not be giving up. :D It's the type of Supergirl that would mean a lot to me and I'm sure many other ppl. :)
So I'm going to keep hoping for a heroic Supergirl and I'm going to keep writing about the importance of heroes and Supergirl and being heroic for young people and teenagers.
Why?
Because I never give up. :D