>:|
So I had another guy friend want to stop being friends with me out of the blue b/c he said that he met me while he was having issues with his g/f (I didn't even KNOW HE HAD A G/F) and that now they're back together and it wouldn't be fair to her to stay friends with me.
And I'm like WHYYYYYY!???????? We've never flirted. Evar (or even close). I'm not even remotely interested in him. If I met him at another time would he not be friends with me, or would I be safe and still be allowed to be his friend?
Does he think every girl likes him or something? He said his g/f wasn't jealous or nething and he's acting like he's worried I'll fall for him and cause problems cuz y'know he's soooo hawt and all girls just can't help themselves! We're giant emotional balls of uncontrollable drama!angst!
He acts like that girls are special objects and that he can't just be friends with them but we occupy a special "space" >:O Like well we can't be friends, b/c we are too good for that, he must treat us specially and delicately!
Also >:| He acts like friendship isn't a two way street. I get no say in this, and he was shocked that I would be annoyed somebody just said "yub, we can't be friends no more!" And it just feels like it's not like he sees me as a friend as much as (APPARENTLY) a teddy bear for him to get comfort from while he doesn't have a g/f.. or something.
I feel annoyed and used >:O And also insulted.
Wtf :( Why am I always the odd person out? :\ I'm hemmoraging friends for no reason!!!!!!!!!
Oh and jerkface is now showing up in online games I play to msg me :\
Thursday, October 25, 2007
God what is up with my guy friends lately!?
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4 comments:
Wow Ami - maybe it's you - kidding! XD Seriously though, I think you got it - he broke up with his girl friend and latched onto you emotionally. Now that he's back with her, he feels that he is being unfaithful by remaining friends with you. Honestly, sounds like your better off without him... if his mind is made up, wish him well and be done with it - you should focus your energy on people who are worthy of your friendship. :)
I get the impression he just doesn't know how to be "just friends" with someone, which is sad because that means he misses out.
I think I would be annoyed if this happened to me with reversed genders as well. I'm sorry you feel used by him. Hope things get better.
It sounds like the problem is Toronto guys. You need to move to Philly and beautify the place!
Seriously, that's a shame, Ami. I agree with Alexander -- it sounds like he's not worried about your feelings for him, but instead about his feelings for you. It's a stupid, drastic step, but he might not be mature enough to just not act on those feelings, and being around you might make him feel guilty.
It's stupid and irrational, and he could have handled it a lot better.
On the other hand... there's a good chance it won't stick.
Wow, could that guy BE any more full of himself? How insulting to YOU!
I wold be great friends with guys who were with friends of mine. Then they would break up and the guy would come l;ooking at ME. With the attitude like "Oh now we can be together bc SHE's out of the picture!"
And I was always like, Dood. I love ya and you are a great guy. But SHE is not the reason we are not "together" like that. It's bc I don't want to have sex with you! Surprise!
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